Have you ever been in a situation where you feel like you should always be on guard? I do. Such emotion has been my constant companion ever since I realized that I am a Muslim living in a predominantly Catholic community.
Mind you, for a girl who has always been shy and somewhat insecure, it was not easy. It was not easy to look at the surprise and wary faces of the people when they learned that you are a Muslim and you are different. It was not easy for a 4 year old to attend a birthday party, line up in the buffet table and discover that she cannot eat the hotdogs and spaghetti because they have pork. It was not easy to eat your own food contribution in Christmas parties because you have nothing to eat. It was not easy to be ridicule just because other people find your practice odd. It was not easy to perform fasting during the month of Ramadan and expect other people with different religion to understand why we do it. It was not easy to defend your religion to people whose knowledge about it is so limited and crooked. People who think they know so much yet so little. Wherein their only basis are what they see and hear from the media, which unfortunately are discriminating to Muslims and their religion, Islam.
I have been and still am very much expose to the teachings and practices of Christianity. After all, I attended Catholic schools, my friends are mostly Catholics and some are even members of organization known to apply strict compliance to the ways of the Catholic faith. On top of that, most of my relatives are Catholics. I would say if my faith to Islam is weak, I would have converted already, for these people, my friends and relatives, are mostly good and sincere individuals.
So the ultimate question would be why do I remain a Muslim?
My father is a Muslim who is born and raised in Mindanao, the only area in the Philippines that predominantly practices the religion of Islam. My mother, on the other hand, is a born Catholic from Rizal Province. They met in college, fell in love and marry with the agreement that all my father’s children will become Muslims. At that time, mom is not yet ready to embrace Islam. Papa did not insist under the belief that there is no compulsion in Islam. It took mom six years with already four children, I being the youngest, to search for the true religion. In my mother’s quest, she joined different religious organization, which even led her to become a Born Again Christian for some time. In the end, mom found her true God, the one and only omnipotent being with the name Allah.
Unlike my mother, I am a born Muslim. From the very beginning, my parents made sure to instill to the minds of their children that they are Muslims and their religion is Islam. Naturally, we were oriented on the basic ways and practices of being one. However, from my experience, I realized that knowing is not the same with understanding especially when you are surrounded with practices and beliefs that are more widely observed in the community and are far from your own. If my mother’s challenge then was to find Islam, mine is to love Islam.
I greatly admire the values practiced by Christians and I greatly respect the beliefs of other religions. This is because this is what Islam orders Muslims to do. With Christianity, for instance, why would we not respect this religion when there is a thin line between its teachings and ours?
Let me first correct some common misconceptions about Islam in terms of belief in God;
1. Islam a.k.a Mohammadanism. NOT TRUE. Muslims only worship one God called Allah, and Prophet Mohammad is the messenger of Allah. Therefore, Mohammad is not a God, he is just a Prophet of God 2. Muslims worships the moon and the stars. NOT TRUE. The teaching of Islam say no to paganism and reiterates that there is only one God to worship and that is Allah.
3. Muslims worship pig, hence, it becomes forbidden to eat it. NOT TRUE. It is stated both in the holy Qur-an and the holy Bible that it is forbidden for a man to eat the flesh of swine primarily because it is unclean. For a better understanding, allow me to quote the verses from both holy books.
Bible: Leviticus, 11:1 -8
11:1 Yahweh spoke to Moses and to Aaron, saying to them, 11:2 "Speak to the children of Israel, saying, 'These are the living things which you may eat among all the animals that are on the earth. 11:3 Whatever parts the hoof, and is cloven-footed, and chews the cud among the animals, that you may eat. 11:4 "'Nevertheless these you shall not eat of those that chew the cud, or of those who part the hoof: the camel, because he chews the cud but doesn't have a parted hoof, he is unclean to you. 11:5 The coney, because he chews the cud but doesn't have a parted hoof, he is unclean to you. 11:6 The hare, because she chews the cud but doesn't part the hoof, she is unclean to you. 11:7 The pig, because he has a split hoof, and is cloven-footed, but doesn't chew the cud, he is unclean to you. 11:8 Of their flesh you shall not eat, and their carcasses you shall not touch; they are unclean to you.
Qur-An: Al-Baqarah, 2:173
"He hath only forbidden you dead meat, and blood, and the flesh of swine, and that on which any other name hath been invoked besides that of Allah. But if one is forced by necessity, without wilful disobedience, nor transgressing due limits,- then is he guiltless. For Allah is Oft-forgiving Most Merciful" (Al-Baqara, 2:173).
To summarize, Muslims believe that there is only one God, Allah, and none has the right to be worship but him. He is the creator of the heaven and the earth and all the things, living and non-living in this great, big universe.
Now that we have established the issue on belief in God, let me now explain why I mentioned that there is a thin line between Christianity and Islam. All the holy writings, namely the Psalms of David, the Torah of Moses and the Gospel of Jesus, which are the books and the foundation of Christianity are also the same books that makes up the history of Islam.
I would like to emphasize that the only difference between Christians and Muslims is that the former stopped with the Gospel of Jesus Christ and made him God while the latter acknowledged that after Jesus there was another Prophet namely Prophet Mohammad, which is known in the Islamic world as the last Prophet of God.
In Islam, Jesus Christ, like the other messengers of God, Adam, Noah, Abraham, David, Moses, Mohammad, to name a few, is a Prophet of God, to whom the same love and respect is given.
Islam as a religion is a very broad subject to discuss. I would like to consider this article as a preview on the succeeding articles that I am planning to write about my religion. With the guidance of Allah, I hope that these articles may help the non-Muslims understand the true teachings of Islam. With all the negative news being associated with Islam mainly on terrorism, I must admit that I cannot blame them if they have a bad impression about it. This is precisely the reason why I am doing this. Hoping that in the future, they will be able to see the beauty of Islam the way the "TRUE" Muslims see it.
Minds like streams maybe so broad that they are shallow. The key is to open our minds and free ourselves with what we already know in order for us to appreciate new ideas.